The Psalmist’s penitent lament, the ancient and elaborate reconciliation rites of two estranged brothers, and the apostle’s household etiquette reasoning sound strange to our ears. Nevertheless, is Paul dismissive when he concludes, “But if anyone is disposed to be contentious—we have no such custom, nor do the churches of God?”

Deep remorse and shame
Dwelt in abject self-pity
Not for healing makes
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Two brothers circle
Hide mistrust in politeness
Yet new bonds begin
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Old household customs
Bolstered by lame theology –
Now set free through Christ
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